We're Doing It! with Sofia & Albert
Welcome to We’re Doing It!
Forget the polished, picture-perfect marriage advice. We’ve been married for 12 years; we have two kids, and we are officially using a podcast to have the honest, everyday arguments that keep a long-term relationship real.
Every week, join Sofia and Albert for an unfiltered, funny, and fiercely real look at the everyday stuff we all go through in life, parenting, and marriage. No characters, no labels, just two equal partners airing out their daily grievances, roasting each other's worst habits, and blind-reacting to the wildest relationship stories Reddit has to offer. From the invisible mental load of parenting to petty household standoffs, socks on the floor vs. the leftover graveyard in the fridge, nothing is off-limits.
This is a lighthearted, funny, and fiercely authentic look at the beautiful chaos of family life. You might hear from a special guest or a rotating co-host from time to time, but mostly, it’s just Sofia and Albert figuring it out in real-time.
Grab a coffee, pick a side, and welcome to the trenches. We’re doing it. We’re all doing it.
New episodes drop every Monday!
Episodes
14 episodes
The Death of a Pastor's Wife 2: The Stigma of Divorce in the Church, Spiritual Abuse, & What Mica Miller’s Story Teaches Us about the Importance of Breaking Free
Why do high-control religious environments treat divorce as an unforgivable sin while quietly sweeping abuse under the rug? In Part 2 of our deep dive inspired by the Netflix documentary The Death of a Pastor's Wife, Sofia and Albert u...
The Death of a Pastor's Wife: Deconstructing Patriarchy, Control & What Mica Miller’s Story Teaches Us about One-Sided Submission
Why do high-control religious environments and demands for absolute obedience lead to such devastating consequences? In this deeply personal episode of We're Doing It!, Sofia and Albert dive into the real-world dynamics behind the docu...
The Art of Letting Go: Marketplace Horror Stories, Sock Mysteries, Emotional Chaos, and Midlife Decluttering
In this episode of We’re Doing It, Sofia and Albert dive into the cathartic (and sometimes chaotic) process of decluttering...not just physical items, but mental and emotional baggage too. Sofia shares the thrill of making sales online...
Turning 40, First-Time Makeup Mistakes, Midlife Clarity, and When He Asks to Come Back
In this episode of We’re Doing It, Sofia and Albert dive into the reality of turning 40, shifting mindsets, and why "midlife clarity" feels so much better than a midlife crisis. Sofia shares the hilarious and intimidating experience of...
I Almost Didn’t Post This: The Vulnerable Truth About Parenting, Kids Roasting Us, and Unfiltered Mom Guilt
I almost didn’t post this episode.For our 10th milestone episode, Albert and I decided to tackle a topic we’ve been avoiding: parenting. To keep things light, we brought our daughters on the show to play a quick game of "Who's Mos...
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Shut Up & Act Normal: Public Fights, Car Farts, and Being Embarrassed by Our Spouse.
What happens when "for better or for worse" means dealing with public scenes, bad posture, and cultural clashes?This week on We're Doing It!, Sofia and Albert return for part two of their summer series on all the things m...
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Why Are You Like This? Public Embarrassments, Weird Wardrobe Choices and Husbands Who Misremember Everything
Do you ever look at your spouse in public and think, "I love you, but please pretend you don't know me right now"?This week on We're Doing It!, Sofia and Albert dive into the deeply relatable, sligh...
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Mildly Infuriating Annoyances: Part 2, Texting Read Receipts, Overstimulation Resentment, and the Reality of the "Man Flu,"
Are we completely losing our minds, or are everyday irritations just hitting harder late at night? We are back with a brand-new episode of We’re Doing It, and this week, Sofia and Albert are coming to you live from the nostalgic depths...
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Mildly Infuriating Habits of Everyday Life: Grocery Cart Procrastination, Missing Hygiene Habits, and the Stress of Everyday Logistics
We’re back this week on We’re Doing It, and we are breaking down the mildly infuriating everyday pet peeves that drive us completely insane. Since Sofia has to make her own coffee at home now because we are broke, we are tackling the u...
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The Reality of AI Relationships: Chatbots Replacing Real Human Connections, and the Modern Loneliness Epidemic.
Is your AI chatbot secretly a better friend than the real people in your life? This week, Sofia and Albert are back with a brand-new episode of We’re Doing It, and they brought along a very special guest: their long-time friend, 6th-gr...
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Are We the Problem? Really Shitty Friends (Friendship Audit Part 2)
Are we the dream besties we think we are, or are we actually the problem? 🫣 In Part 2 of our adult friendship episodes, we are turning the mirror on ourselves! We dive into our own "sus" friendship habits, from Albert’s ADHD brain replies that ...
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Pure Drama of Adult Friendships: Friendship Breakups and the Hurtful Reality of Loneliness as Grown-Ups
Welcome back to We're Doing It! Today we are tackling a topic we all thought we’d be done with by high school graduation: friendship breakups, adult drama, and the absolute minefield of making new connections as grown-ups.From g...
Broke, Bitter, & Going Back to School to Make Less Money
Every morning starts the exact same way: "Good morning, Sofia. Today you are poor, and that's okay."This week, we are stripping away the filters and talking about the absolute reality of going through a financial crisis of pover...
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Double Standards & The Things We Can't Stand About Each Other
What happens when an intense, calendar-obsessed household manager is married to a chaotic, defensive ADHD creative? Welcome to the relaunch of We’re Doing It, where we air out 12 years of dirty laundry, bicker on mic, and blind-react t...
